The Functions in SM

The BDSM

Represented by the bondage, the discipline and the Sadist masochism. The BDSM is used to relate to the whole community appreciating the fetishism of the bondage, of leather, of the SM and more...

The BDSM is one of the numerous designations given to a set of behaviors that applies to the servitude, to the domination and several other activities in a healthy context and sécuritaire, without abuse and with the consent of the participants. The BDSM is a shape of erotic game that includes a certain dose of emotional and physical risk, what means that he requires a certain shape of education in order to be able to practice it with a reasonable security.

The word disciplines has numerous definitions. In a general manner he it relates to the punishment that derives an order badly executed or interpreted badly. Technically the discipline implies an action that doesn't raise in anything of the pleasure, nor of the fun for the submitted. Often we find the people who are only BSM (no real discipline).

The BD represents the bondage and the domination or the bondage and the discipline. The DS represents the domination and the submissiveness. The MS represents the Master and the Slavic (slave). The SM represents the Sadism and masochism.

Master / slave

These two names are used in replacement of Domineering, submitted. Several sorts of relations exist in the BDSM. The range of the possibilities goes from the simple role playing at the time of occasional meetings of one evening without following day to a relation serious of 24/7 (24 hours per day and on 7 days per week on 365 days per year).

The Master control physically and morally sound or his her its slaves on all plans of their life. A real slave gives up all his her its rights and his her its personal property. He it won't have any personal initiative.

The Bondage

Represent the action to keep linked an individual in order to immobilize it. The bondage maybe light or imposing. The light bondage results in the pose of a pair of handcuffs, one of a rope that will keep the hands in the slave's back. He it becomes hard when he it has for goal to prevent the smallest movement of the submitted.

The Domineering or Master

Represent the one that dominates, that prevails over the other. The position of the dominant maybe established in the beginning of a relation by a fight to the result of which the winner becomes the dominant. In general it is the one that takes the instructions, that drive the game, that takes in charge life of the submitted. This last must to call the dominant by Master or by Sir, followed the family name. This last appellation is solely in public required foreign to the BDSM practices.

The submitted or slave

Represent the one that shows the submissiveness, of docility and that gets back under the tutelage of another individual and that undergoes some and execute the orders of domineering.

The masochist

Represent the one that searches for in the suffering his her its pleasure, his her its reason to be. For him, the submissiveness is the path that it must follow in order to reach the pain, physical and moral.

The reciprocal

The real reciprocal appreciates the two roles as much. He it finds as much pleasure there to dominate that to be dominated. He it can be a very good Master and to be a slave of first quality. Frequently he it arrives that some slaves become Masters, and of very good Masters. It is rarer to find the inverse. He it is very rare that a Master becomes a good slave.

The domination

Represent the exercise to take the control on another individual in such a way that he it cannot have the least initiative anymore in order to succeed in procuring erotic pleasures so much at the submitted that at the domineering. For that to make, several manner exists to arrive there that goes from the strong manner to the soft. The strong manner consists in punishing the submitted to the least mistake. The soft manner, that has my preference, consist in letting make as here nothing was. Forcing thus, if we have a real slave, this one to think about the point to modify himself his her its mistakes. This manner to make has for goal not to satisfy the submitted that likes too much to make itself themselves punish. As depriving it of punishment or his her its dose of suffering us accomplishes the most beautiful punishment thus that either.

The submissiveness

Represent the exercise of the abandonment of the control of oneself to all levels, as very physical as morals, in order to procure erotic pleasures so much to the individual submitted that to the domineering.

Leather

Beyond to be an animal skin, leather is also used to relate to a group of the homosexual, fetishist community. Leather became a cult. To carry leather relates more, nowadays to a manner to live. One carries leather because we like his her its contact and, he it comes with us in all circumstances. Leather also represents the symbol of the Male, the hard ! The truth ! In opposition to this picture of the big madwoman that glues itself to homosexuality. For certain, leather represents a simple zero complement. He it can be also the fundamental instrument in a certain shape of dragnet.

Signal of alarm

Him maybe represented by a word, a code, a gesture, specific to warn the Master of a situation of emergency, either physical, juridical person or either sexual. This signal of alarm is generally a word that is chosen previously and that is outside of the usual language in the masochistic Sadist practices.

The necklace

Him maybe a strap of leather of five-centimeter large, or of metal, in the same way width. He it is placed to the slave's neck as symbol of possession and control by the Master and as the first sign of adherence, submissiveness and property. The slave is not able to, in no circumstance, to back out of the port of the necklace. He it sometimes arrives, in some circumstances, that the Master replaces the necklace by a chain closed by a padlock of which he it is the only one to possess the key. Only, the Master, can decide some thus.

The SM (Sadist masochism)

Represent the condition by which the Sadism and masochism unite in a relation between two individuals in which several elements go in account and take an important part in this relation. These elements are: the domination and the submissiveness as well to the physical level that to the psychological level, the bondage that can achieve itself either with ropes, either with chains or either, with all other shapes of ties chosen by the Master, the electro (torture) of which the device, to the departure, serves to maintains it muscular; his her its elements placed on some parts of the body and to frequencies of electric waves to more or less high densities provoke real pains, the pain that the masochist must feel in order to find his her its pleasure. All these elements and a lot of other, non mentioned here, are sought-after, used between two adult, responsible and in agreement individuals, who must to practice them in all security in order to be able to find an erotic excitation and a sexual and spiritual enjoyment there. The SM doesn't imply the use of the bondage automatically, even though in the practice of the Sadist masochism the two are linked. The bondage is only an instrument and no one end is some. In fact, the bondage depends on the game style in practice and his her its intensity. Thus, the bondage becomes the necessary instrument. The Sadist masochism invariably implies the research of the submissiveness, of the pain, it is the goal of it for the two parts (Master and slave(s)) in order to find the pleasure that is going to drive to the enjoyment. In the negotiation of a game it is necessary to be clear on this one. The most often it is about erotic SM what means, soft for the submitted. However if the submitted is to be a real masochistic and that the Master is a real sadistic the games are going to become more and more hard in order to reach the extremes, that are the outcome of a Mr. and of his her its humble slave.

Conclution

Some submit to another individual, standing thus under the authority of the other, in a setting, a psychological and sexual research. It is a very strong and very beautiful thing when someone told you: "I give myself to You. Use me as good seems you. My body, my soul, my life belongs you. Make in what you want some." This relation goes back in the setting of the dominant DS, submitted, (Master, slave). The DS is complete part of the Sadist masochism.

The SM, Sadism and masochime.

Represented by the clamps to toothed jaws for the breasts, and classic for all other parts of the body, the whip (given until blood), the hot wax (regaining the sex and the testicles of a thick film completely), the electro torture pushed to the maximum waves. All these marvelous things, as well for the Sadist that for his her its masochistic of slave, are used to cause the pain more or less in one degree strong. It can be a powerful thing to submit to another individual who can wound you. This total trustworthy gesture is fantastically beautiful. The pain is not more truly the pain in the erotic game, it in is the stimulant to reach the enjoyment and that little, once what is managed by the Master clever, to bring to the submitted new measurements of ecstasy.

The DS becomes sometimes secondary in a trip, you can feel no pleasure to obey the orders received another individual, but you like to be attached, whipped, and naturally you like to feel the pain in you, soft or strong, she becomes this sensation necessary to your pleasure. A lot of other exist, and doubts can drive you to the pleasure. This journey uniting the pain to the pleasure creates a powerful and extraordinary experience for the one that submits itself of it.

All these definitions, SM, DS, BD, MS, superimposes themselves, mix themselves of numerous manners. For me, they not have all one joint in my quest of the Extremes in the pleasure, the pain, the submissiveness and in the domination. We transform our imaginary in a daily reality and all instant creating thus, between a Master and his her its slave, a space fantastically beautiful.